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The Magic Of Black Leather .

Nairobi always has a special unmoved place in my heart,NairoBae though I dislike passionately the cold weather .Mombasa my current love for the last 6 years now, the weather is just superbly amazing. Imagine the difference when I travelled carrying with me just a scarf.

Shock on me the cold didn’t spare me it actually devoured every inch of my skin I literally had to raid my pals wardrobe luckily we are the same size she loves loves leather, I found my perfect fit. For this specific day I was meeting up with an amazing talented poet and photographer Sami Khan. It was one of those random days I didn’t feel like putting an effort to look all styled up or dolled up .

Within seconds I was rushing out having just powdered my face, lip gloss and nude matte lipstick on. Got to town and I realised damn I forgot to wear my earrings I got into a boutique shop and this rounded red earring just caught my eyes 😍 love at first sight. I was running late for our meeting, I dashed out heading to Java Nation Centre.

It seems Leather jackets is the legit cold weather combat as he was also dressed in one . We touched base on his works most especially his recent published Photo and poet book and yes I got my own copy out of the blues he suggested we go for a shoot.

My mouth literally fell on the floor, how could I go for a shoot unprepared , looking like all this normal laid back me. I didn’t feel pretty enough for a shoot, this was one of those days when a female just didn’t feel pretty enough to be in front of a camera.

Let’s just say I just had to go for the shoot to close the year with a bang and be like let’s see how this “meh” will look like in front of a camera. Three hours later after the shoot I was looking at the photos with gushing eyes and all smitten.

Mind you, all this photos are as raw as I felt ,it was just awesome and the perfect reminder that in all our rawness and fear beauty can still be seen as it oozes from deep within up.

Now I know what I want for my birthday, a black leather jacket and another pair of black leather like jeggings 😉😉😉.

Photography by Sami Khan

Wardrobe : Models Own Aside from the Black Leather Jacket ( gifted).

Sunglasses : Gifted “Funky Glasses ” 😘.

Shoes By Sonia Collections Mtwapa.

Nails By Wanja

African Bracelets By Costa.

Location : Sami Khan Studio Surroundings.

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Miss Flônt It.

“Resist your fears, fear will never lead you to a positive end. ” T. D Jakes


When You Forget Who You Are.

I don’t know where to start, it’s been awhile since I was here I have meant to write and post something but every time I tried I got this nagging feeling not to, and I postponed it. before I knew it two months had passed , I almost lost who I am.

Knowing Who you are with all honesty is the most important thing that one can do for themselves. When you truly are yourself small things won’t bother you nor will they hinder you from moving towards your dreams no matter how hard it gets.

When the fears and doubts begin to creep in you second guess every move you make , you can no longer find meaning and satisfaction even in the things that you truly enjoy doing, life becomes burdensome and your passion at some point seems no longer a worthwhile pursuit.

At this point you begin to believe what others say about you and most of the time it’s not positive or it doesn’t help to spur your growth and is just a complete waste of your time, but still you foolishly believe in that more than your own opinion of yourself. As a result you wander away from the path to your dreams and start to live in the mistakes and your shortcomings in the past. After that your time is spent on wondering what if I had done it differently, instead of what can I do to get better, what skills do I need, where can I find more opportunities, what lessons can learn that will propel me further.

Once the time for action has passed regrets set in, anxiety follows, frustrations grow and a feeling of desperation arises when you forget who you are, what you really want and your destination in life. Nothing destroys faster than regrets, the “what if’s” of life.

It takes a lot of courage and confidence remain yourself in this ever-changing world, with new demands at every turn. I have learnt that at every stage of our lives, circumstances will demand a different you along the way, by different it does not mean you change to conform to other poples demands of you,  rather it should be a better you, a more mature and experienced version of yourself.I’m happy with the person I am.

Never forget who you are, especially when the times are tough, who you truly are will always lead you to your better place .Believe and hold on to that.

Make Up Models Own ( Juju Make Up) 

White Romper  : Models Own.

Heels : Sonia Collections Mtwapa.

Hair By Fatma Mtwapa.

Nails By Wanja.

Photo Credits : Francis Njenga (New Images)

On Location : Pepo Mingi Private Villa

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Miss Flônt It

“If you listen to people  and if you allow people to project their fears on you,

You wont live.”

Taraji P Henson.

Where Feet May Fail






If you never speak up you’ll never know how easier if would have been and how a better road that would have been if only you had opened up and break  the silence. How acting a smile when all is not okay worsens the situation by the day. 

The last few weeks has been dark and full of low moments , my feet failed 😔 😔 .

When sudden changes happen in our lives everyone deals with it differently but knowing myself that caught me by surprise most especially when I had all the certainty that someone had my back only to realize I was alone , that I actually had been alone all the time.

And just to think that I didn’t see it all along.  And everything that brought me cheer and happiness suddenly  was bile and annoying to me. For a moment was so angry at myself and it kept playing over and over in my head. But then again I realized I can’t be so hard on myself that would be unfair on me. 

My sleep pattern changed at first I was sleeping longer then the timing started to reduce and  insomnia happened. So I switched to watching movies and music But concentration span was totally zero.

Whatever was going on in my head can’t be easily described  but I remember moments of being chocked by anger,  sadness,  fear,  anxiety and stress so I guess I was depressed  Yes no maybe.  All I knew was I just had to fight out and fight on…. 

Risk it all,  talk open up to someone you trust or  to that person who has extended there wholesome self as trustworthy to you.  Your people will never see you sink and just watch I have full trust in that.. 

It’s very easy to hide and put on a smile and live on without anyone noticing that you’re struggling to keep that face that smile to keep everything okay and in  check. And it just hit me so hard how so many people out here are hold up in the world of depression and anxiety most especially our male counterpart find it so hard to open up about it. 

How am I currently?  Fighting on that’s what am doing and keeping it one day at a time forgiving and letting go working on the so much that I had lacked the energy and synergy to attend to and as as Dwayne The Rock Johnson says “..when times get tough, hold onto faith and always be willing to put in the very hard work with my own two hands..”

Keep it here  ♥ , so much to do and it will be done,  delivered and exceeding my own expectations fall 99 times rise 100.

It will get better in time. 

Much love to all my support system friends and those who have always stuck up for me you guys are my heroes and biggest motivation.

Where Feet May Fail – Hillsong United. 

Models : Lucy Okal and Priscillah ibalai

Photography : Prologue Creative _ Tapawa and Bonnie Wekesa 

Love ♥. 

Miss Flônt It 

“My strength come from lifting myself up after I have been knocked down .”

Bob Moore 

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