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When You Forget Who You Are.

I don’t know where to start, it’s been awhile since I was here I have meant to write and post something but every time I tried I got this nagging feeling not to, and I postponed it. before I knew it two months had passed , I almost lost who I am.

Knowing Who you are with all honesty is the most important thing that one can do for themselves. When you truly are yourself small things won’t bother you nor will they hinder you from moving towards your dreams no matter how hard it gets.

When the fears and doubts begin to creep in you second guess every move you make , you can no longer find meaning and satisfaction even in the things that you truly enjoy doing, life becomes burdensome and your passion at some point seems no longer a worthwhile pursuit.

At this point you begin to believe what others say about you and most of the time it’s not positive or it doesn’t help to spur your growth and is just a complete waste of your time, but still you foolishly believe in that more than your own opinion of yourself. As a result you wander away from the path to your dreams and start to live in the mistakes and your shortcomings in the past. After that your time is spent on wondering what if I had done it differently, instead of what can I do to get better, what skills do I need, where can I find more opportunities, what lessons can learn that will propel me further.

Once the time for action has passed regrets set in, anxiety follows, frustrations grow and a feeling of desperation arises when you forget who you are, what you really want and your destination in life. Nothing destroys faster than regrets, the “what if’s” of life.

It takes a lot of courage and confidence remain yourself in this ever-changing world, with new demands at every turn. I have learnt that at every stage of our lives, circumstances will demand a different you along the way, by different it does not mean you change to conform to other poples demands of you,  rather it should be a better you, a more mature and experienced version of yourself.I’m happy with the person I am.

Never forget who you are, especially when the times are tough, who you truly are will always lead you to your better place .Believe and hold on to that.

Make Up Models Own ( Juju Make Up) 

White Romper  : Models Own.

Heels : Sonia Collections Mtwapa.

Hair By Fatma Mtwapa.

Nails By Wanja.

Photo Credits : Francis Njenga (New Images)

On Location : Pepo Mingi Private Villa

Be Confident,  Be You

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Love 😘

Miss Flônt It


“If you listen to people  and if you allow people to project their fears on you,

You wont live.”

Taraji P Henson.

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Anywhere You Dare

There’s beauty everywhere it’s just how you see it from within yourself that reflects back. The world will never get tired of reminding you of your imperfections and the standards that you are to adhere to. 

For days I have been weighed down by this endless feeling that I can’t describe. As I continue to look at myself and re affirm myself and my purpose clarity in who I am is defined. 

It never costs a thing to be kind and patient with self as well as with others. Holding on to fear never amouts to anything and our insecurities with our bodies,  with who we are and what we can achieve beyond our walls of fear and unknown insecurities. 

You can’t let people scare you. You can’t go your whole life trying to please everyone else. You can’t go through life worried about what everyone else is going to think. 

Whether it’s your hair,  clothes,  what you have to say,  how you feel,  what you have believe and what you have .You can’t let the judgement of others stop you from being you. Because if you do,  you’re no longer you. You’re someone  else everyone wants you to be.

Dare yourself to want more,  to require more of what is within yourself you’ll be amazed of much more that you can possibly achieve far and beyond.  The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before. 

It’s not easy following this woman,  her intuition sometimes gets me off balance and at times am out of breath taking  one day at a time towards a direction that I  can’t see light at the end of the tunnel but hopeful.Anywhere you dare do it passionately,  confidently and with a warm heart. 

Be confident , Be You 

Make Up Models Own ( Juju Make Up) 

Red Dress  and Heels  : Models Own. 

Hair By Fatma Mtwapa. 

Nail By Wanja. 

Photography by: Francis Njenga (New Images) 

On Location : Pepo Mingi Private Villa 

Be confident,  Be You

Flônt it 

Love 😘 

Miss Flônt It 

“I think I remind everyone of themselves  not saying everyone is my size but it’s relatable because  not perfect and I think alot of people are portrayed as perfect,  unreachable and untouchable “.

~ Adele. 

Be Your Biggest Fun 

​Sometimes it’s hard sticking to a path that you can for sure bank on that this is what makes your heart tick but wait till it gets to the public domain that’s when you shrink or start doubting. 

 Regardless of how you share or express  your dream, only you can understand to people they can’t seem to give a thought to it,  it can only come life if you just keep at it and push harder . 

I remember starting out here the doubts in my head was real .Its not easy when it gets tough but most of all when you tell yourself that you’re not making any progress. When no one is paying attention to what you can tell us fired up passion ready to explode and just contagiously spread to others. 

Work on it as you progress even when you don’t feel like it.Focussing on self ,  the journey and how intense at times it made me feel all emotions wrapped into one huge ball of fire screaming  name in the background after hushing myself down.

Am glad through the journey of ups and downs,  giving up and coming back I can still be able to look back and still do it again .Looking back I can just but smile and respect the process,  as I keep walking the journey and rooting for myself all the way. Wake up and start screaming your  name out passionately ♥. Be your biggest fun. 

Make Up Models Own ( Juju Make Up) 

Pink Laced Dress and Heels  : Models Own. 

Hair By Fatma Mtwapa. 

Nail By Wanja. 

Photography By New Filmz Images Njegah 

On Location : Pepo Mingi Private Villa 

Be confident,  Be You

Love 😘 

Miss Flônt It 

“No one cares about your dreams.People will only start caring when it has gained momentum and has gotten big enough for them to start paying attention.Until then, it’s you and your goal, and working on it whether you feel like it or not is what will get you to where you wanna be.So you might as well start being your biggest fan.”

 James R.  Quest

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