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Be Confident, Be You

Body Shame Needs To Stop , every BODY is Beautiful.

Being skinny has to be one of the most awkward moments , more than an in between feeling for one you’ll be the center of all fun uncalled for comments and jokes others leaving a bad taste in your mouth. Two you’ll be someone’s else body goals and lastly there is no actually reason for this am just placing an unknown feeling in this last one.

It’s really is heart breaking to see in this day, age and era some people still choose to body shame others. What’s even more heart breaking is women who choose to do that to other women.

This leaves me super perplexed and I question did any of us requisition to be born the way we are now? There is nothing in this world that can tear another soul like a woman full of bitter spew and venom spitting the same onto other females.

Of what value do we add upon ourselves when we spit such utter shame on others ? We need to look at ourselves and question this things we allow on a daily basis eventually they’ll become the norm and you begin to wonder we are headed to.

Do not allow anyone to body shame you, do not let it get into your head.. Whether full figured or slender let the decision to make that change come from you if you’ll lose weight or add weight. For as long as you are okay with who you are do not let anyone be your validation point rock your body.

The Best attire one can ever dress themselves with is confidence, self esteem and self worth. No amount of money can buy this, it’s not for sale and it’s free and it’s upon each and all of us to cultivate it, groom it and grow.

A Daily Dose of self validation and self approval that indeed regardless of what the world throws at you, no matter where you are, that you are beautiful, Worthy and awesome in all glory . Glam Yourself with Confidence, Self Esteem and self worth.

Truth of the matter is when you body shame any woman you stripe yourself off all the goodness in you as a person and all the negative that you spew reflects itself on you.

Photography by Sami Khan

Wardrobe : Models Own Aside from the Black Leather Jacket ( gifted).

Sunglasses : Gifted “Funky Glasses ”

Shoes By Sonia Collections Mtwapa.

Nails By Wanja

African Bracelets By Costa.

Location : Sami Khan Studio Surroundings.

Be Confident, Be You .

Miss Flônt It.

“Real women are fat. And thin. And both, and neither, and otherwise.”- Hanne Blank. “


Flawed Imperfections – Loving Your Body Folds

Body confidence is wearing my flaws with pride knowing deep down I am but a mare mortal and that I never signed a contract anywhere as to how I want to be neither how each of my body parts should be.

I found myself just the way I am and due to some life’s tragedy some parts got malfunctioned not literally 😂 ,an accident happened either of my own happening (playing as kids broke my one front tooth story for another day) or unavoidable circumstances. (slid and fell down breaking another front tooth 😥).

One of the main thing I can’t stop my body is from its natural folds when I sit move or even just do the simplest of anything. No matter how trained you are as an instructor or fitness trainer you can’t stop the natural folds of the body.

I have learnt to differentiate the natural body folds and my expectations towards my body. My stomach is different when I stand and when I sit is just but one example .As one works out towards their body goal it’s always important to keep in mind what ideal is and what your body can actually achieve on a healthy regime.

I also keep in mind of how different our bodies are in regards to body type, size, shape our genes and race just to mention. At one point in life I was super uncomfortable with just any folds in my body and every opportunity or chance if had given I would have made an unwise decision of getting rid of something that I had actually thought was a bother and uncool.

Every single day I make a conscience decision to love every inch of by body all in its flaws and imperfections as much as I work out, take care of it and eat healthy.

There is no specific example of perfection or the ideal body that every female should be, but every female should aspire and want to be wholesome in just who they are as they work towards loving themselves wholly and fully with a commitment to be a better person first and foremost to the self and then other women and everyone around them.

Photography by Francis Njengah

Bikini : Forever Trendy

Shoes By Sonia Collections Mtwapa.

Nails By Wanja

Be Confident, Be You

Love 😘.

Miss Flônt It.

“You are imperfect , permanently and inevitably flawed
Amy Bloom

Coloring This Life

Inspired by music, life experience and meeting incredible people from all walks of life has made my life by so far super colorful, exciting and enriching. A year ago had I no actual zeal to celebrate one of the most important days of my life “My birthday “.

Life with its unpredictable turn of events threw me into a dark pit that I had lost my spirit of dance and self belief. For a moment I trekked on uncertainty & fear but I still had hope. I am in a much better place with life as I keep on becoming better and knowing better.

Every high and low in life is always a preparation for the person that you are meant to become. It is filled with tears, pain, uncertainty, dark days and worry of what if you’ll not be good enough. That only is enough to want more out of yourself, it’s normal and it does not last long as long as you keep hope alive even if it’s 0.001% of hope. I have learnt to always stand up for myself, who I am and to believe in myself so much till it hurts.

Color this life with my charm, enthusiasm, charisma and bubbly self without containing myself, holding back or even being boxed into people’s ideal of the person that I am as well as the person I am becoming. People or even your closest of your people will think you’ve changed while in real sense it’s you becoming of age of what was deeply hidden in you, like a caterpillar you will blossom into a butterfly and nothing stop that stage and cycle in your life.

I intend to keep on coloring this life with all the dance I can, all the fitness I can behold, all the confidence I can spread and gracefully holding my tiara high with boldness & courage letting out the queen that I am.

Happy Birthday Miss Flônt It.

Dance More|Lift More| Slay More|Believe More|Spread More Love| More Positivity |More Boldness |And Every Bit of Who I am.

Demand more from yourself because it’s all within you.

Slay 2018*Dance*Fitness*Confidence*

Queen 👑.

Issac Twerk Month, Issa Birthday

Twerksation 😎😍😋

Coloring This Life – Vybez Kartel

Photography by Francis Njengah

Nails By Wanja

Wardrobe :Models Own

Shoes: Sonia Collections Mtwapa

Hair : Kaloti Haircut Mtwapa.

Location : 2547 Cottages Diani.

Be Confident, Be You

Love 😘

Miss Flônt It.

“Just be yourself let people see the real, imperfect, flawed, quirky, weird, beautiful, magical person that you are”

Mandy Hale

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